The ratio of good men versus bad men for me on this site is about 2:8. Two out of 8 men turn out to be nice guys. The trouble I find on here is that, I am your No Drama No Games lady looking for the same on there (msfaye74), but for whatever reason, I NEVER get personal messages from the guys first no matter what. I always get the 'viewing' traffic but that's it. When I initate contact, that's when I get a response. I think this is a system-generated website for that reason and also, if men were truly viewing my profile, then they would read at the bottom PERSONAL MESSAGES only. I still don't get nothing but FLIRTS and all the FLIRTS are from 'new members'. Anyway, I am now hip to the game, I'm still No Drama No Games lady looking for the same but have moved over to Tagged.com where membership is free.
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I read your profile on BPM and saw the pictures you posted with your Nurse co-workers. Do I have to ask if it was YOUR HUSBAND THAT FILED FOR THE DIVORCE! Your soon to be ex husband is in the military = he has everything he needs (including his new sweetheart), so you're the liability.
You're MARRIED and trolling the internet, yet you found it necessary to proclaim in your BPM profile that you're not a whore or jezebel?
You mentioned God in one of your responses above, yet here you are badmouthing, defaming and slandering someone's name! Yet, you have the audacity to say the man you're badmouthing has no INTEGRITY!
You also mentioned in an above post how FAITHFUL you were to your husband and YOUR children. FAITHFUL fo your husband in the same manner you're FAITHFUL to God by putting someone on blast and trying to make them look bad.
You deserves what comes your way. I highly suggest you be careful using God's name or deciding to add God's name to your situations for your conveniences.
Your soon to be ex husband marrying another woman soon after your divorce speaks volumes about your FAITHFULness to him and he did well by turning your loose.
Does your husband's lawyer know you're on a website to meet other men?
Ladies, there's a guy on the site DUNRT, have any of you come across him? If you do or if you have, I will tell you first hand HE IS A LIER. Very charming, seems to be very nice at first, but will turn on you like a Pit Bull with rabies. A man of no integrity. Ladies please be careful.
Get a grip and reality on life. What GOLDDIGGING mentality, black men don't have any gold to dig for or else they wouldn't be a literally inexpensive website. The black man that has the bank account doesn't have a need to pay chump change to TRY to connect with women because he's in the CORPORATE world making things happen. PLEASE do us black women a favor and go be with the so many white women that have tried to connect with you. We really don't care because it just means one less dog for us to train, and since most black women are the sole providers of YOUR scattered children anyways - we'd love for you to hop the fence AND STAY OVER THERE. We don't have time to raise somebody else's grown boy. Go be with your LESS DRAMA ..... rat now and leave us alone.
that is no different from alot of you so called self proclaimed DIVAS that say you want a sincere man but you only look at his face and income on this site before you decide if you will respond to him when what you apperently dont know is that any real man is not going to state wat he really makes because of that GOLDDIGGING plague that has come over you sisters in the last 5-10 years.so dont be so quick to prejudge us brothers. I find it amazing that i wont date out of my race but have received more messages from white females than sisters and i am not only a good sincere brother but also very nice looking...but you all dont know brothers these days are dating more white women? answer...LESS DRAMA!!!!!
In response to FLOWERCHILD629....Girl, this sounds like the same guy that sent me a message talking about he wants to take me to dinner, because he see that I had a recent birthday. This guy ask me that on his very first contact to me, we never chated or conversated or anything. I could tell he was a strange person asking me something like that on his first contact. Of course I did not respond back to him. He supposely lives here in Charlotte, he is in his late 50's. He say his name was Charles in his message. I just immediately deleted his message. I do not meet strangers like that. He said that the dinner would be totally on him. This dude did ask me anything about myself. It sounded like a booty call to me. LADIES, please be careful on BPM, or any online dating. Whats up with all these flirts these men send on BPM, with no conversation.
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I met a guy the other day.. Soulmate (Robert Johnson) with some numbers behind it...in Charlotte, NC...we went to breakfast, it was nice. For some reason I could not talk to this guy and look at him in the face. It was so weird, because I never had this issue with meeting any guy. Well after breakfast, he tried to kiss me and I turned my head told him that I don't kiss on the first date and he kept trying. After breakfast we were going to meet up again, and he called me later to tell me that he don't like to be told no and he didn't want to hurt me. Being that I didn't kiss him, he didn't think we should see each other again. I am like WOW! So I asked him, if I would have kissed you, you would not be calling me tell me of the rejection.. The brotha said yes... I think he is in his late 50's. I was so buffled by it... because he kept staring at me the whole time and breakfast telling me how beautiful, intelligent I am. I kind of got a hint it was for sex...because before he tried to kiss me.. he said you have a beautiful body.