Well...I need to share my story and experience on BPM. First of all have the right frame of mind when you join it. What is your goal? Do you know who you are and what you want? What are your deal brekers? By all means be honest with yourself and be realistic and careful. My goal when I joined was to meet strong, confidant men that I could spend time with. Everytime I got a message I responded regardless of their income or apprearance. I actually have a couple of good friends out of that. I only moved to the next phase by my choice not out a sense of desparation. I've met an amazing man on this site. We are both putting our personal goals and dreams together for a successful future. We are 2 years strong now. Yes both men and women can have a negative experience on the site, you have to exercise caution. The same caution you would exercise if you met him in Starbucks. Do not give anyone your credit card, your financial information...I don't care what they say. Frankly if money or sex comes up before the person knows who you are...RUN!!! Keep trying, BPM is an easy way to meet people...and you might get as lucky as we have:)
Well...I need to share my story and experience on BPM. First of all have the right frame of mind when you join it. What is your goal? Do you know who you are and what you want? What are your deal brekers? By all means be honest with yourself and be realistic and careful. My goal when I joined was to meet strong, confidant men that I could spend time with. Everytime I got a message I responded regardless of their income or apprearance. I actually have a couple of good friends out of that. I only moved to the next phase by my choice not out a sense of desparation. I've met an amazing man on this site. We are both putting our personal goals and dreams together for a successful future. We are 2 years strong now. Yes both men and women can have a negative experience on the site, you have to exercise caution. The same caution you would exercise if you met him in Starbucks. Do not give anyone your credit card, your financial information...I don't care what they say. Frankly if money or sex comes up before the person knows who you are...RUN!!! Keep trying, BPM is an easy way to meet people...and you might get as lucky as we have:)