BEWARE...I signed up for BPM in 2009-2010 after a close friend suggested it. Since I was recently divorced I thought I'd give it a try since I was attempting to get back into the dating scene. The site is easy to use & if you are just looking to "meet" somebody this is the way to go. HOWEVER, if you are really hoping to meet quality individuals I would NOT recommend it. Most, if not ALL, of the men lied about various things including their real names, current living situations, their careers/jobs, height, what they were looking for (as in casual vs. long term) etc. Not to mention that a whole lot of them are on the DL and are just looking to get laid...you'll find this out after spending your money to sign up & having phone conversations with some of them.
One guy that I agreed to meet showed up weighing at least 250 lbs heavier than the pictures he posted on his profile which put him at 450+lbs. Two lived with their parents/mothers, another drove his GIRLFRIEND's suv for over an hour to my city to meet me for lunch!!! Found this out after we went on a few dates. It was definitely a (very disappointing) learning experience. I'd suggest going to Christiandatingforfree.com instead. I met my current man on this site and didn't pay a dime. We've been together for 6+ months. Hope this helps...
BEWARE...I signed up for BPM in 2009-2010 after a close friend suggested it. Since I was recently divorced I thought I'd give it a try since I was attempting to get back into the dating scene. The site is easy to use & if you are just looking to "meet" somebody this is the way to go. HOWEVER, if you are really hoping to meet quality individuals I would NOT recommend it. Most, if not ALL, of the men lied about various things including their real names, current living situations, their careers/jobs, height, what they were looking for (as in casual vs. long term) etc. Not to mention that a whole lot of them are on the DL and are just looking to get laid...you'll find this out after spending your money to sign up & having phone conversations with some of them.
One guy that I agreed to meet showed up weighing at least 250 lbs heavier than the pictures he posted on his profile which put him at 450+lbs. Two lived with their parents/mothers, another drove his GIRLFRIEND's suv for over an hour to my city to meet me for lunch!!! Found this out after we went on a few dates. It was definitely a (very disappointing) learning experience. I'd suggest going to Christiandatingforfree.com instead. I met my current man on this site and didn't pay a dime. We've been together for 6+ months. Hope this helps...