I Had a Wonderful Experience, in That I Met My Lovely and Loving Wife of Over 5
I had a wonderful experience, in that I met my lovely and loving wife of over 5 years now on Chnlove.com. I never would have met her but for Chnlove, but once we had met we largely dispensed with their services, wrote each other directly every night for 6 months using Yahoo messenger and her great web cam which made me very happy and less lonely for the approx. 1.5 years after we married before my wife passed her interview in Guangzhou and received her US visa. A little over 3 years after she entered the US she is a citizen, works as a medical assistant, and while we are returning to China (at last!) this fall in her case for 2 months, while I will follow and stay over 6 weeks with her and her fantastic family, who have treated me as a member of the family since I met them. The agency provides a service where people can meet each other, and provides services many need early in their relationship, but you would be amazed at how hard, the mostly women after all, work to learn english, and once they are here to adapt to a whole nother world. While China can seem strange to those of us that aren't familiar with it's history, language, and huge range of variation in peoples lives depending on where they live, city or rural. My wife had educated me not only about Chinese culture and language (up to baby talk level in my mandarin), and I have tried to help her adapt to her new life and circumstances. It is working great, our marriage (my 2nd, her first- and yes she was a virgin at 27!) grows stronger every day and as my retirement approachs on the far horizon at present, it will come faster than I expect I'm sure, but we both hope to be able to arrange our life to life 1/2 time in China and the remaining time in the US.
You dont say anything about their charges-what it cost you in EMF's, agency fees etc.
They just dont know who is genuine and who isn't on their site, that goes for the women and the Translators so many guys have wasted 100's of dollars.
With all the other available sites at a fraction of the cost and DIRECT communications with the women immediately i really dont know why anybody needs to bother with chnlove.
I personally have had lots of interest from women in many parts of China. I just chat with some of them go a bit further with others and just maybe i will go over there for a second time.
But even at that i will be very choosey and im entitled to be-its MY money.
Put it this way, they can seem to be the real thing but wouldn't YOU seem to be the real thing if women were offering to fly half way around the world to meet you ?
Its a no-lose situation for them whatever happens and most guys who go there will be opening their wallets every 2 minutes.
It must have cost you at a rough guess somwhere between 10 and 20 grand all accounted for but if it worked for you then i suppose you consider it money well spent.
Its certainly high-risk for most people and i suggest guys who cant really afford to take the risk stay away and certainly dont waste bucks on chnlove.
So what are the sites? I would like to see.
Good day my dear how are you together with your peoples over there?i hope that all is well with you?if so thanks be to the lord almighty for his infinite love towards us.
i am very happy everytime i hear from you,thank you very much for your good and kind hearth towards for me here is my id (samiracole@live.co.uk)
by Laogongtutu
You are a lucky one ,but most not! Look at the mess!