OK...I would like to address this thing that has been mentioned a few times about the "other group" censoring threads. Yes, a couple threads were locked out, because they were going nowhere. I knew of at least one instance where the girl broke up with the guy...and he started to say it was all a scam. Fact is, not all two people are compatible.
To be honest, the original reason for the group was to give the guys somewhere to ask a few questions. I didn't realize it would turn into the support group it has become.
When there are cases where there has been scamming going on (and we have had several as well), we want to help those members. The threads that were locked were not going anywhere. Constructive criticism would have been better than what was happening. We are not all about feel good happy go lucky chnlove is a perfect company...we also know there is more crap going on.
Personally, I do not try to tell anyone to continue to pay for services. Obviously, if they can get out of the EMF letters, then the better it is. At the same time, I am not against chnlove. I do think they need to do some more work to make it a better company.
This is where I think we should be having real dialogue with you guys here...not this insulting back and forth stuff that has been going on. There is power in numbers, and numbers get things done. I would love to see a perfect system for all men that want to join chnlove. Battling back and forth really doesn't accomplish this.
This is all I am going to say. Bash me..flame me...or try to help us make a difference. Your choice.
As far as my friend from Toronto...I don't think it was right for his half story to be posted here. This isn't the first time that half the story has shown up here. Yes, he got a raw deal...but he really had very little involvement with chnlove with this lady. I just think that when people are stripping information off the blogs, or off the other groups, they should try to get all the facts...not just the paragraphs that look good in this forum. It isn't always as it seems.
Thanks for reading my 2 cents worth.
Posted by @martin.trucker on 2009-06-18 03:10:15 UTC
OK...I would like to address this thing that has been mentioned a few times about the "other group" censoring threads. Yes, a couple threads were locked out, because they were going nowhere. I knew of at least one instance where the girl broke up with the guy...and he started to say it was all a scam. Fact is, not all two people are compatible.
To be honest, the original reason for the group was to give the guys somewhere to ask a few questions. I didn't realize it would turn into the support group it has become.
When there are cases where there has been scamming going on (and we have had several as well), we want to help those members. The threads that were locked were not going anywhere. Constructive criticism would have been better than what was happening. We are not all about feel good happy go lucky chnlove is a perfect company...we also know there is more crap going on.
Personally, I do not try to tell anyone to continue to pay for services. Obviously, if they can get out of the EMF letters, then the better it is. At the same time, I am not against chnlove. I do think they need to do some more work to make it a better company.
This is where I think we should be having real dialogue with you guys here...not this insulting back and forth stuff that has been going on. There is power in numbers, and numbers get things done. I would love to see a perfect system for all men that want to join chnlove. Battling back and forth really doesn't accomplish this.
This is all I am going to say. Bash me..flame me...or try to help us make a difference. Your choice.
As far as my friend from Toronto...I don't think it was right for his half story to be posted here. This isn't the first time that half the story has shown up here. Yes, he got a raw deal...but he really had very little involvement with chnlove with this lady. I just think that when people are stripping information off the blogs, or off the other groups, they should try to get all the facts...not just the paragraphs that look good in this forum. It isn't always as it seems.
Thanks for reading my 2 cents worth.