Finally, Soth, I agree with Harry and the others who hold the same view : If you are prepared to accept the consequences then do what is best in *your* own interest. Your personal intuition is not the intuition of 50 other onlookers, well-intentioned or not. How would they know? Even the so-called experts on the other groups who are advertised as "always being right" do not appear to be "right," after all? What a surprise!
I have been on this particular forum long enough to know that what you are wanting is for someone to give you an "answer" to a decision you have already made anyway. There isn't one.
All I can advise you, or anyone, in general terms, borrowing from all the contributors on Pfishy is: 1. be prepared financially for any and all "surprises"
2. do not limit the number of 'ladies' (or translators) you connect with; there is *no* point since you have *no* idea what your recipient is ingesting by electronic means and if there will even be any physical "chemistry" and,
3. brace yourself for the reality, not fantasy, of knowing that you are meeting someone who is living a different world (Harry makes mention of the language barrier, I would suggest this is only a part of it, albeit important part).
So, with all that in mind, hope you make a good decison. For myself and others, I have seen enough I know what Chnlove provides, and what it doesn't provide. At the very least, it becomes and provides "entertainment" to steal Harry's words. But, for myself, that is not what I paid for. I can't answer what you are looking for, nor can the others. Sorry.
All the best, Gentlemen and Gentle-folk.
*** NOTE: Keep your Profile IDs/First names of "Ladies" whom you did not share a pleasant experience with. Again, if we don't get enough, I won't post. Just a quick answer to some who asked: DON'T give all your personal information out if you do not feel comfortable. Read the PRIOR Posts on this topic. Good luck! ***
(PS - Does anyone know when the flying-car is going to be commonplace on this planet and when super-Highways will begin employing them as we jump on the gerbil wheel?)
(Part 3 - Soth's Big Decision)
Finally, Soth, I agree with Harry and the others who hold the same view : If you are prepared to accept the consequences then do what is best in *your* own interest. Your personal intuition is not the intuition of 50 other onlookers, well-intentioned or not. How would they know? Even the so-called experts on the other groups who are advertised as "always being right" do not appear to be "right," after all? What a surprise!
I have been on this particular forum long enough to know that what you are wanting is for someone to give you an "answer" to a decision you have already made anyway. There isn't one.
All I can advise you, or anyone, in general terms, borrowing from all the contributors on Pfishy is: 1. be prepared financially for any and all "surprises"
2. do not limit the number of 'ladies' (or translators) you connect with; there is *no* point since you have *no* idea what your recipient is ingesting by electronic means and if there will even be any physical "chemistry" and,
3. brace yourself for the reality, not fantasy, of knowing that you are meeting someone who is living a different world (Harry makes mention of the language barrier, I would suggest this is only a part of it, albeit important part).
So, with all that in mind, hope you make a good decison. For myself and others, I have seen enough I know what Chnlove provides, and what it doesn't provide. At the very least, it becomes and provides "entertainment" to steal Harry's words. But, for myself, that is not what I paid for. I can't answer what you are looking for, nor can the others. Sorry.
All the best, Gentlemen and Gentle-folk.
*** NOTE: Keep your Profile IDs/First names of "Ladies" whom you did not share a pleasant experience with. Again, if we don't get enough, I won't post. Just a quick answer to some who asked: DON'T give all your personal information out if you do not feel comfortable. Read the PRIOR Posts on this topic. Good luck! ***
(PS - Does anyone know when the flying-car is going to be commonplace on this planet and when super-Highways will begin employing them as we jump on the gerbil wheel?)