It seems Nikolaev is a bad area from what I've read but I'm here only for one reason although it's actually CHEATING this site, it's a very helpful way of sifting out the cr#@. I would LIKE to share this tip because of the honest guys looking for their "amazing...dream girl" and I find...yes, there's ALSO really ugly girls on this site (some are just pests when they keep on and on writing to me hoping lol) but i'm on this site because there truly are some DAMN pretty girls here and some of them are really nice people! I've been a silver member for about 3 years on and off but only RECENTLY come up with this idea that I will share with (only the honest) guys looking. Because guys...I know you are wanting to have an amazing women by your side but...for the site...if you WANT this dream girl of yours amongst 10000's you must pay right?? mmm, I disagree ;) in fact, I SERIOUSLY hope this trick of mine is KEPT here otherwise someone will even blow MY cover :( AND others who want to use it) but to be honest...it works ;) and APART from watching these girls how often they come in to "work" for extra bucks (which is ALSO good idea but NOT as good as mine ;) lol )
So ok, here's the deal (Actually there's two deals REALLY, one is getting her to write you a letter with all questions she wants to ask you, you then TELL her (perhaps in your intro or whatever) you DON'T write letters cos the site charges) but...if she WANTS answers to your questions then just before she logs out she comes to YOUR chat window where she can find her answer ;) , you DON'T write her back because that's ALSO credits, unless it's an intro ;) ) I have one or two girls I do this to and they are ok with it ;) so...who's getting paid NOW????? AND...if she IS a scammer she won't even bother after short while, I mean she's NOT getting paid because I'm NOT paying lol so, for her it's TOTAL waste of not just emotional energy but time too (and by the way, it sounds like she DOES work ;) I think I believe her, she HAS told me that she reads MOST of my chat messages which is FINE ;) ) I think one of these days I'm going to introduce her to option (b) which is next, This method I use as kind of an introduction for future possibilities....but hell, there are SO MANY possibilities on this site! so even though some areas it seems ARE scammers I use this as a general "sifter"
Option b: The option where you get to spend more TIME with her because mmm, for me letters seem more "distant", you don't really get to KNOW her really upfront and personal
You get TWO profiles going (the site DOESN'T allow this of course) one is yours and the other is your BUDDY ;) you know that one who uses his credit card? (the one WITH a credit card? lol), so he creates a profile FOR you (NOT that he's very interested but he does it for you),so he fills in his profile and get approved, you fill his account with 50 bucks (JUST to read the chat messages, otherwise you can't read JACK!), you then go back to YOUR profile, SERIOUSLY fill up your account, say to max to save you bit on credits. Right, now WHEN you put in a chat message in your chat box it MUST, MUST be empty of her chats, the chat box MUST be empty otherwise this trick WON'T work, if she HAS said something then wait until next time she logs in or wait some time, just to clear the chat box of her message/s. if it's clear you write your message AND it's free, watch your credits if you don't believe me ;) because WHAT'S happening is the site DOESN'T charge if only one person is sending messages there, they start charging if she responds yes. but, I'm thinking a lot of you know this??
Anyway, the FIRST time you talk to her you have to explain this whole two profile thing to her so this is where the spending comes in, spend say an hour with her to EXPLAIN what I'm going to tell you now.
In order for this to work you need TWO devices, say two computers or a comp with your phone, anything to connect to the net, connect one device for you to READ off and the other to WRITE with (your computer), the one you READ off is your buddy's profile, log on to his profile and open the chat box to read her messages and then other OTHER (your profile) you open the chat box, THIS is where you WRITE from, but TELL her (and this is EXTREMELY important) NOT, NOT, NOT to write in YOUR chat box!!!!! otherwise the site starts charging. Tell her to write in your BUDDIES chat box, then AS she writes to you, so you read what she says and you write back to her in YOUR chat box ;)
IF she's willing to do this then she's NOT getting paid (how DOES she????? you're not paying ;) so HOW does the site get paid and with what money do they pay HER??? CERTAINLY not with YOUR money lol
I've been using this method for a while now and it's helped me A LOT! I HAD a gf and only reason we broke up was because I promised her I would phone her after a month, I didn't :(((((( (look, I'm a bit of accident prone guy so I made some mistakes on my way which made me LOOK like a bloody scammer "sorry Anastasia" but to this day she still doesn't believe me, she doesn't use my method anymore but, quite frankly I don't blame her, but FLIP ME she was AMAZINGLY beautiful!!!! No, the MAIN reason I didn't phone her was because I was scared I wouldn't get through and I didn't think they would GIVE me her details but it seems like this site DOES give the girls info out, I'm not sure yet but I haven't actually tried yet. Also turned out she was DAMN CHEEKY, I suppose I don't blame her for that EITHER :((( I suppose I only have myself to blame ( STILL kicking myself today) FLIP but she was beautiful!). Then there WAS another I was chatting to, we chatted for a WHILE, ALSO pretty, we used my method for about a month (she also saved me quite a bit), a NURSE by profession, can't remember where SHE was from though but ONLY reason why we "divorced" ;) was because I DON'T want kids...and she did, we tried sorting out but I'M so adamant about NOT having kids (I've been hurt LOTS by other girls and don't trust women, I mean HOW can we have kids if she's not going to last with me? if we divorce,it's only the kids that get hurt the most! I'm NOT willing to take that chance!) yes get married but...) that we split. She was even willing to meet me on skype ONLY to hear my voice and see me.
NOW GUYS, this is VERY, VERY important, PLEASE don't let this site know this trick, I ask you from the BOTTOM of my heart because I STILL use it today. This last girl DID ask for a gift from me so I bought her a bear (so she can also cuddle with it at night and think of me so reason was TWO fold actually...one to show my commitment and the other to give her some comfort while I'm not there) but weird, the week I BOUGHT her this bear we broke up lol. but guys, this system DOES work, watch you credits, the site DOESN'T charge when you the only one chatting in your chat box ;) just watch, you'll see ;) just PLEASE...PLEASE keep this to yourself and also important...ask her NOT to tell the agency or management lol, SO far I haven't had problems and i've been using it for GOOD few months now. My first gf used it when she felt like it so I ALSO had my suspisions about her, she was HARD to read but she was also adamant that she WASN'T getting paid (she was a secretary for a NASTY company-was even working on SATURDAY EVENINGS!!!!! HOW PATHETIC!)
Anyway guys enjoy your search
By the way I'm from South Africa and am HONSTLY trying to find a GOOD woman, YES, I have my emotional issues, I'm trying to find a good woman with a strong (emotional) shoulder, my thinking is she's been through a lot in her country so she's used to it, if she can handle my crap I would appreciate her SO much more and honestly get to fall in love with her BIG time! IF we divorce...well, it was nice nevertheless
Anyone want more clarification on my trick or someone wanna give ME more advice on their EXPERIENCES (I DON'T want CRAP ASSUMPTIONS!!!!!!!) PLEASE mail me, I'm willing to help you out. I mean, sometimes to properly explain to this woman how this system works can ALSO be a bit frustrating especially with language barrier so it might take bit of time (I've also had comment that I'm "smart! to think up system like this", one or two have already asked if the site KNOWS about this and i've said "no, otherwise they would've stopped it".
Well, my email address: zukies28@gmail.com
I don't want people scamming me either please! This is my PERSONAL address so just leave ME ALONE if you wanna talk CRAP to me!!!
If you just want to have SEX with the innocent, DON'T bother with this system because they ALSO battle to sift! So to THOSE A-holes, LEAVE the decent ones to the honest guys!!!!!!!
Anyway...good luck to the honest guys ;)


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