I never met anyone off this site- and played their back and forth question and answer plan countless times with members who were supposed to be matched to me. It was exhausting going back and forth answering all the questions. If I tried to \"fast track\" questions and actually write a real letter, most of the time I was denied- so suspicious that eharmony was setting me up. For the $50 a month, save your money. I think it\'s far better to jump over to OkCupid (free) and take your chances there. Yahoo is another choice- it\'s not as ridiculously expensive as E-Harmony, and I\'ve met lots of men there. One caveat on yahoo-the IM screens lock up my PC every single time.
I never met anyone off this site- and played their back and forth question and answer plan countless times with members who were supposed to be matched to me. It was exhausting going back and forth answering all the questions. If I tried to \"fast track\" questions and actually write a real letter, most of the time I was denied- so suspicious that eharmony was setting me up. For the $50 a month, save your money. I think it\'s far better to jump over to OkCupid (free) and take your chances there. Yahoo is another choice- it\'s not as ridiculously expensive as E-Harmony, and I\'ve met lots of men there. One caveat on yahoo-the IM screens lock up my PC every single time.