I just joined a dating service and the first guy I went out with took me out to
I just joined a dating service and the first guy I went out with took me out to Sunday brunch. In his online photo I couldn't really tell what he looked like, but on the phone he seemed very funny and nice, although he told me he was 40 lbs overweight. During the date he was very chatty, joking all the time--just a little too much for my taste, some of the jokes with sexual innuendos were awkward--but I figured he was nervous. At the end of the date, he asked me out for dinner Wednesday evening, and I didn't have my Palm with me, so I told him I'd call today. My question is, I can't see myself with this guy romantically because I'm just not attracted to him. Should I tell him I'm not? How to do that in a kind way!!!! He might be a great friend, but since he's definitely interested in me, saying something like that could be an insult. Guys, what say you?
I just joined a dating service and the first guy I went out with took me out to Sunday brunch. In his online photo I couldn't really tell what he looked like, but on the phone he seemed very funny and nice, although he told me he was 40 lbs overweight. During the date he was very chatty, joking all the time--just a little too much for my taste, some of the jokes with sexual innuendos were awkward--but I figured he was nervous. At the end of the date, he asked me out for dinner Wednesday evening, and I didn't have my Palm with me, so I told him I'd call today. My question is, I can't see myself with this guy romantically because I'm just not attracted to him. Should I tell him I'm not? How to do that in a kind way!!!! He might be a great friend, but since he's definitely interested in me, saying something like that could be an insult. Guys, what say you?