In terms of men seeking women, almost 100% of the women on this site are scammers
In terms of men seeking women, almost 100% of the women on this site are scammers. I have found that these scammers are divided into two categories: (1) Those from abroad wanting your money; and (2) those from the US who lure you to a sex site that wants your money.
At first I was flattered by the number of women who winked and flirted with me, but I very quickly found out that they were all scammers and if I had paid close enough attention I would have caught it earlier. Now I'm pretty good at spotting scammers.
There's basically two ways to spot them:
(1) They present information that is contradictory; and
(2) they behave in a way that a normal person would not behave.
Let me give some examples of what I mean. They present information that is contradictary: The woman in the photo has black hair; they put hair color as bald or as blonde. The woman in the photo is a beautiful blonde. They put nationality as Asian. They put a professional type of employment (such as teacher), yet they have spelling mistakes and grammar errors all over the place.
Here are some examples of not behaving like a normal person would behave. The first example is a little subtle (I missed it completely. Only after I realised that I was being scammed and went back to read her emails, did I see it): The First Letter Of Each Word Was Capitalised. Nobody writes like that. If anything, people don't capitalise at all. Another example is a woman who is just starting communication with you, refers to you as my Dear, and signs off as Love. Another example is that the woman is utterly gorgous; it's just too good to be true type of scenario. Well it isn't.
Lastly, my advice is that if you are already on the site, under no circumstances give out your email address. Keep communicating within the site. It's almost as if their goal is get your email address. Many of these scammers have already caught me, and have my email address. I don't know what they plan to do with it.
I think it is reasonable to ask for a woman's phone number (as is how we always used to do it), and if she won't even respond to your request, then you can almost be certain it's a scam. Because any normal person will respond with a no or a yes (as opposed to just ignore it).
In terms of men seeking women, almost 100% of the women on this site are scammers. I have found that these scammers are divided into two categories: (1) Those from abroad wanting your money; and (2) those from the US who lure you to a sex site that wants your money.
At first I was flattered by the number of women who winked and flirted with me, but I very quickly found out that they were all scammers and if I had paid close enough attention I would have caught it earlier. Now I'm pretty good at spotting scammers.
There's basically two ways to spot them:
(1) They present information that is contradictory; and
(2) they behave in a way that a normal person would not behave.
Let me give some examples of what I mean. They present information that is contradictary: The woman in the photo has black hair; they put hair color as bald or as blonde. The woman in the photo is a beautiful blonde. They put nationality as Asian. They put a professional type of employment (such as teacher), yet they have spelling mistakes and grammar errors all over the place.
Here are some examples of not behaving like a normal person would behave. The first example is a little subtle (I missed it completely. Only after I realised that I was being scammed and went back to read her emails, did I see it): The First Letter Of Each Word Was Capitalised. Nobody writes like that. If anything, people don't capitalise at all. Another example is a woman who is just starting communication with you, refers to you as my Dear, and signs off as Love. Another example is that the woman is utterly gorgous; it's just too good to be true type of scenario. Well it isn't.
Lastly, my advice is that if you are already on the site, under no circumstances give out your email address. Keep communicating within the site. It's almost as if their goal is get your email address. Many of these scammers have already caught me, and have my email address. I don't know what they plan to do with it.
I think it is reasonable to ask for a woman's phone number (as is how we always used to do it), and if she won't even respond to your request, then you can almost be certain it's a scam. Because any normal person will respond with a no or a yes (as opposed to just ignore it).
Good Luck guys and keep your eyes peeled.
Norman
Los Angeles